✅ Troop 259's chartering organization, Milwaukie Lutheran Church Elca, is clearly affirming of LGBTQ+ youth and adults in its church and all connected programs. What does this mean?
This page and policy has been created and maintained by previous LGBT-identifying troop 259 scouts (now current committee members) in an effort to create a more welcoming scouting environment for everyone. Troop 259 seeks to form a low-conflict sense of community, where all scouts are looking out for each other as well as their overall physical and mental well-being. We love what scouting has to offer, and we want you to be apart of it.
✅ Pronouns are used in place of proper nouns. While you may not have heard of them before, you and those around you use them on a daily basis in regular conversation. If you ask Riley, "Where did Tom go? I haven't seen him for a while", you used a pronoun. Specifically in English, it is most common to use he/she when referring to someone. However, for transgender youth, this may create discomfort, increase anxiety, which can lead to increased risk of suicide.
✅ Recent studies have shown that using the correct pronouns when referring to transgender youth lowers depression and suicide risks significantly. If you or someone you know is at risk of suicide, dial 988 for the National Suicide Prevention Hotline immediately. Troop 259 is committed to being a safe Troop for all youth. Using someone's correct pronouns is one of the most basic ways of showing respect for a person.
While it may seem odd to ask someone what their pronouns are at first, think about what your pronouns are. Now, imagine someone calling you by the incorrect pronoun. Again, imagine them continuing to use the same incorrect pronoun even after you have corrected them. How would you feel? Is the person calling you by the wrong pronouns being courteous?
✅ Mistakes happen. The best thing to do when accidentally calling someone is to simply apologize and do your best to call them by the correct pronouns going forward. It may take some time to get used to, and that's okay. When in doubt, it is always respectful to use someone's name in place of their pronouns.
Credit: Scouts for Equality (2)
Seek first to understand. If we can’t understand the viewpoints of others, how can we hope to connect in meaningful ways and build relationships which reflect the values of the Scout Oath and Law?
Meet people where they are. Everyone has different viewpoints, and chances are high that not everyone is committed to advancing inclusion and belonging in our movement. Those people are who we should be striving to speak with the most! It is important that we create opportunities for strong relationships and honest communication so that everyone has the opportunity to learn, challenge old habits, and live Scouting’s deepest values.
Always start with "yes". If someone asks if they belong in Scouting, even though they’re a girl, a member of the LGBTQ+ community, an atheist, agnostic, or humanist, a person with a disability, or a refugee — and you hesitate — you’ve already made them feel like they don’t belong. Instead of wondering what you’re going to have to do to make them feel welcome, simply say “Yes, of course you belong here.” You’ll have plenty of time to figure out details later, and you’ll have the added benefit of that individual or family assisting you in doing the right thing: Create a sense of belonging.
Don't jump to conclusions or make assumptions. Just because someone looks a certain way or talks a certain way doesn’t mean you should make any assumptions about their background or identity. Acknowledge your potential biases and think before you speak!
Learning how to advance inclusion and belonging when we feel surprised or confused is an important habit to acquire, but the Scout Oath and Law help us do exactly that. Doing our best to help others feel included and welcome means living the Oath and Law by cultivating an open, non-judgemental attitude about behaviors, identities, and personal expressions that differ from our own.
We must support each other in practicing these values. Creating a culture of learning and accountability among those who already feel like they belong in Scouting is vital for advancing inclusion and belonging for all.
We all make mistakes.
(1) Using Chosen Names Reduces Odds of Depression and Suicide in Transgender Youths - University of Texas at Austin (news.utexas.edu)
(2) Inclusive Scouting Guide - Scouts for Equality (scoutsforequality.org)
(3) “Forward Thinking Campaign” shares the risks for LGBTQ youth still today
Further reading for advancing inclusion and belonging for specific communities which have been, and continue to be, excluded from Scouting - Scouts for Equality (scoutsforequality.org)
What are Gender Pronouns? Why do They Matter? (nih.gov)